Tuesday, July 5, 2011 | 11:12 PM | 0 butterflies
However, not all relationships fail either. It is indeed heart warming to hear of and see couples who have grown older together with the love they share increasing with the passage of time. Truthfully im one lucky lady who is still standing in relationship for the past 4 yr . It wasn't easy though.It's base on 2 people understanding each others life.#1 : If you do not have a good foundation, the relationship will collapse when the smallest problem comes your way, or, it will corrode over time and collapse. The foundation for a lasting relationship is love and trust, cemented together with by communication. Communication involves not just talking, but listening and understanding, as well.
#2 : Take one step at a time. Enjoy the different phases of love and the blossoming of different feelings between the two of you. If you rush ahead, you will miss out on many beautiful things that you could enjoy together.
#3 : Spend time together doing constructive things. This will help both of you build a bond that goes beyond physical attraction. If you are looking at a life together for a long time, then you need to see how the other person behaves in particular situations. Also, doing things together draws you closer to each other and builds a strong relationship.
#4 : Love is for the good times and the bad. Therefore, do not assume that life is going to be rosy and comfortable just because you are in love. The stresses of live will impact you as well as your loved one. Sticking together during the bad times will help you appreciate the good times as well. This, in turn, helps you forge a stronger bond.It is similar to people who go on an adventure together. Sticking on to your loved one no matter what comes your way will determine whether the relationship lasts a life time, or just a short time.
I Love him till death though how much he thinks im irritating . Couldnt resist. oops! :)
